Monday, February 11, 2008
Chinese New Year celebrationfirst day - international buffet at movenpick hotel.was a bit disappointed coz it was mostly western and not chinese(lol,durh)
second day - clubbing at diplomatic club.full details later
third day - dinner with sheen and family and uncle rahim
fourth day - dinner with su mei and family,gayathree and her bro,and mohammed,a qatari guy we just met at the shopping mall...zzzz
fifth day - city centre with gayathree
sixth day - final silk painting class
seventh day - bowling with friends
ok and the list goes on..but its one more week before i go back to melb!!woohooooooo
anyway about the clubbing night...too much to say...ive never met so many desperate men in my life!!!!i feel violated and abit freaked out!why?coz the moment u walked in,there are men standing there asking you to join them at their table and offer to buy you drinks...all you have to do is say no...i did many times!truth be told that men here are looking for wives because they cant find one here so clubbing is the easiest way to look for their future spouse...which is silly...its an over 21 event so most of them were pretty old...main highlights of the event,music was so-so...crowd was alrite..company was good and ppl were despo...there was this black french guy who said oh,i reali like you and i want you to call me(gave me a piece of paper with his number on it) and i was like,you dont even know me and im not interested in anyone right now(in other words,bugger off!)...hes so pushy and i got so turned off,i just said i had to go...seriously,i wasnt interested at all coz he didnt even understand what the hell i was saying...he doesnt understand english,yet he had the nerve to come up to me,ask me to dance,buy me a drink and ask me out...what the hell?!!i said i was goin back to australia soon and he didnt understand what the fark i was telling him...a big NO NO...but anyway,didnt even bother to layan him after that...then there was this other middle eastern dude who couldnt stop hassling me...to be honest,im there to have fun and dance with my girls without ppl pushing me around and hassling me...i mean there were bout 7 to 8 men who came up,asking me where i was goin to sleep tonight(wtf,that was so damn sick!),whether i would like a drink(they had probably spiked it)bla bla bla...omg,the nerve!!!at least i know what clubs here are for...not for ppl to have fun but for ppl to pick up and have sex...oh so thats why its over 21!!its just too sick to be true..zzzz such a turn off!
another story...we met this qatari guy at a shopping mall,city centre.ok,so we've just met him and he works at my dad's friend's company so ok we decided to invite him over for cny dinner.so he came over la and makan etc...then he bought my sis and I a YSL perfume each!!!and i was like,no i cant accept this!!how can he buy us a perfume when he doesnt even know us and it was just the second time he has seen us since the encounter in the shopping mall.it was pretty damn awkward,i can tell you that.i was abit agitated,didnt really know what to say.my mum kept saying oh,hes a decent guy,hes smart,rich,a computer engineer who works at an american company and btw,hes 27.what is she trying to say?before he left,he kissed my hand and that was even more weird!!!my whole family just looked and said nothing.we were all too shocked.i avoided his gaze the whole time he was there.i think he needed ppl to talk to him because he wanted attention.but i'll still say no.
and so,i was abit out of it recently.not sure whether i was shocked or surprised.maybe the word for it is overwhelmed by all this.never had to face this kind of situations before.i mean i've already made it clear that i'm not interested in guys.not for now and not for a long time.i just dont want to get involved and its inappropriate to be with people you dont even know.and my family knows i have my self value to that.thats important to keep.i've learnt some important things here and how to deal with them.i guess thats part of being 21.
btw,my future husband is CHRIS EVANS!!coz he so HAWT,JUICY AND YUMMY!!! teeheeee