Friday, January 06, 2006
Hey gurls and bebehs,i got this stuff from lime mag which i thought will help u gurlz in future...hope it'll come in handy one day...When your relationship hits these road bricks, it's time to walk away
- he abuses you or your loved one physically
- forces u to have sex against your will
- accuses you of being unfaithful constantly
- belittles and criticises you
- controls the way u spend your time and money
- prevents u from interacting with your family and friends
- destroys your personal belongings
- blames you when he mistreats you
Most outsiders think its easy to dump a loser boyfriend,but girls stuck in abusive relationships know better. These are the five common excuses girls feed themselves:
EXCUSE #1: WHEN HE'S JEALOUS,IT MEANS HE TRULY LOVES ME
No babe, that just means he's an insecure jerk who selfishly wants u all to himself.Tell him that u have family and friends b4 he came along,and u're not dumping everyone just for him.
EXCUSE #2: HE'S ONLY SCOLDING ME BECAUSE HE WANTS ME TO BE A BETTER PERSON
Who died and made him God to decide what's the best for u?Make up ur own mind,girl. Tell him u appreciate his concern but if he reali wants u to improve,he'll tell u nicely.
EXCUSE #3: HE'S SMARTER THAN ME, HE KNOWS WHAT HE'S DOING
That's exactly what happened with a friend,who thinks her boyfriend is so smart,she believed him when he insisted that the rhythm method is absolutely reliable. All because he took secondary school Biology and has a piteous knowledge of contraception. When she ended up pregnant, he didnt even pay for her abortion.
EXCUSE #4: I CAN NEVER FIND ANYONE AS GOOD AS HIM AGAIN
Rubbish. If he's hurting u right now,he's no good for u. So dump him and don't fret about finding a future boyfriend.U're better off single than stuck with a jerk.
EXCUSE #5: IF I TRULY LOVE HIM, I SHOULD BE ABLE TO ACCEPT ALL HIS FAULTS
Chewing with his mouth open. A tendency to be late for ur dates. These faults may be annoying but still acceptable. Being abusive,manipulative and controlling are not. Try to get help for u and ur partner. If he's unwilling,get out and seek help for urself!!